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Durham, North Carolina · 1988

Barbara & Russ Stager

Book cover: Before He Wakes — Jerry Bledsoe
Book coverBefore He WakesJerry BledsoeBook cover via Simon & Schuster

The story behind Before He Wakes

Barbara Stager said her husband Russ’s fatal shooting in their North Carolina bedroom in 1988 was an accident. Investigators questioned her account and examined the earlier shooting death of her first husband. Russ had recorded concerns about his safety before his death. Barbara was convicted of his murder.

Content note: violence, abuse, or loss. Linked material may contain graphic descriptions. Screen dramatizations may change events and dialogue.

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01Books

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Jerry Bledsoe

Before He Wakes

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02Movies

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03TV & documentaries

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IMDb · TV episode

Forensic Files — Broken Promises (2000)

IMDb episode reference connected to the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Listed release: 2000. Cast, credits, and title information; viewing availability is separate.

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IMDb · TV episode

American Justice — Till Death Do Us Part: The Barbara Stager Story (1999)

IMDb episode reference connected to the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Listed release: 1999. Cast, credits, and title information; viewing availability is separate.

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04Newspaper clippings

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The Herald-Sun · 1989-05-23 · Page 1

Reporting after Barbara Stager’s sentencing

The Herald-Sun records a friend’s perspective after Stager’s conviction for killing Russ Stager.

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05News & reporting

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06Podcasts

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Southern Fried True Crime — Barbara Stager (Episode 54)

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Mountain Murders

Barbara Stager

Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released January 4, 2021. About 123 minutes.

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Southern Fried True Crime

54: The Black Widow of North Carolina: Barbara Stager

Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released May 24, 2019. About 77 minutes.

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True Crime Brewery

For the Love of Money: Barbara Stager

Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released June 1, 2021. About 109 minutes.

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LOVE MURDER

The Black Widow and the Witness from Beyond the Grave

Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released July 28, 2021. About 96 minutes.

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Bless This Mess: A Southern True Crime Podcast

68. The Murder of Russ Stager

Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released November 17, 2022. About 64 minutes.

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This Story is Nuts

Taped Premonition- The Murder of Russ Stager

Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released April 14, 2021. About 20 minutes.

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American Justice

Till Death Do Us Part: The Barbara Stager Story

Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released May 14, 2025. About 40 minutes.

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Red Collar

Supermom Serial Killer: Barbara Stager

Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released September 8, 2022. About 44 minutes.

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Hard Times and True Crimes

108. A Shot in the Dark: The Barbara Stager Case

Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released August 20, 2025. About 87 minutes.

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Basically A Detective with Blake Wooten

1: Barbara Stager

Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released May 16, 2020. About 15 minutes.

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True Crime Island

Episode 163 - Barbara Stager Black Widow

Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released November 20, 2021. About 69 minutes.

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True Crimes and Weird Times

Episode 32 - Black Widow: Barbara Stager

Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released April 28, 2021. About 41 minutes.

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Red Collar

Follow the Blood Money: Barbara Stager

Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released September 9, 2022. About 6 minutes.

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Bitch I Can’t

27. The (Not-so) Good Wife: Barbara Stager

Podcast coverage of the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Released October 9, 2023. About 48 minutes.

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07Social Media

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Southern Fried True Crime

Episode 54: Black Widow Barbara Stager

Video from Southern Fried True Crime covering the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Length: 1:13:09.

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True Crime Brewery

For the Love of Money: Barbara Stager

Video from True Crime Brewery covering the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Length: 1:44:27.

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Oxygen

Did This Widowed Sunday School Teacher Kill Her New Husband? | Black Widow Murders | Oxygen

Video from Oxygen covering the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Length: 14:40.

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Real Crime

The Story Of Women Who Kill | The New Detectives | Real Crime

Video from Real Crime covering the Barbara & Russ Stager case. Length: 53:19.

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Southern Fried True Crime — Facebook page

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08Blogs & essays

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09Internet Archive

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Internet Archive · Library record · 1994

Before he wakes : a true story of money, marriage, sex, and murder

Bledsoe, Jerry. A library catalog record for a book connected with Barbara & Russ Stager. The record may offer a preview or borrowing options; full reading access is not guaranteed.

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Internet Archive · TV News Archive

Forensic Files : CNNW : January 24, 2015 9:00pm-9:31pm PST

The archive indexes this broadcast under Russ Stager, Barbara Stager. It may contain several stories; use any available captions or previews to locate the relevant segment. Full playback may be restricted.

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10From the journal

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11Court records & documents

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Court opinionArchive copy

State v. Stager — conviction and sentencing review

The North Carolina Supreme Court reviewed Barbara Stager’s prosecution for Russell Stager’s murder, upholding the conviction while ordering a new sentencing proceeding.

Court / agency
North Carolina Supreme Court
Document date
August 14, 1991
Case / citation
212A89
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13Where are they now?

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